I’m so happy to share that I’ve completed my TikTok series, 30 Days of Building a Stronger Sense of Self. This series is packed with everything I’ve learned about confidence over the years—from experts, books, and podcasts. I’m so proud of this project and hope it helps you as much as it’s helped me.

Each video in this series is designed to help you grow, reflect, and build confidence. You can click on each image to watch the TikTok video, and feel free to connect with me on TikTok at @nicolenorthh.

Here’s how I wrapped up the final 10 days of this series:

Day 21: How to Get Out of a Rut Post-Grad

In this video, I talk about some things I’m doing to get unstuck. Graduating college and then working a remote job from home can feel isolating. I share how I’m making an initiative to save money and find roommates to move to Boston. I’ve learned that feeling stuck is often a sign—it’s time to grow and change something in your life.

Day 22: How to Enjoy the Journey of the Struggle

Here, I reflect on how The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*** by Mark Manson changed my perspective. One key takeaway: seeking a positive experience can actually be a negative experience because you focus too much on what you don’t have. There’s beauty in the struggle—working toward a goal gives you purpose. Often, people feel lost once they’ve achieved everything they set out to do.

Day 23: How to Get Over Your Fear of Judgment on Social Media

Social media is a form of self-expression, and you should feel free to post whatever you want. Most people aren’t paying as much attention as you think. If your message is positive and authentic, it’s worth sharing.

Day 24: De-Influencing You

There’s a lot of pressure from influencers to follow beauty, fitness, or lifestyle trends, but the truth is, what works for one person won’t always work for another. In this video, I encourage you to focus on what’s best for you and ignore the noise.

Day 25: Start Prioritizing How Your Life Feels Over How It Looks

Our ego often tells us to prove we have a glamorous life, but what matters most is how our life feels. Instead of focusing on appearances, start asking yourself, How do my actions make me feel?

Day 26: The One Thing Every Successful Person Does

Every successful person takes responsibility for their actions. They know that no one is coming to save them. It’s also important to distinguish between responsibility and fault—they’re not the same thing.

Day 27: How to Level Up Physically and Mentally

I share some tips that have helped me level up:

A consistent skincare routine
My workout routine
The mindset of not caring what others think

Day 28: Stop Overanalyzing Every Emotion

Sometimes, emotions don’t have deep meanings—they’re just reactions to your circumstances. Feelings are temporary, and not everything needs to be overanalyzed.

Day 29: Stop Trying to Prove Yourself to Others

The only person you need to prove yourself to is you. Once you realize that, life gets a lot easier.

Day 30: 15 Life-Changing Quotes

To wrap up the series, I read 15 quotes that have truly resonated with me. These quotes are all about self-care, inspiration, and motivation—perfect reminders to keep you grounded and focused.

I hope you’ve loved this series as much as I have. My goal has always been to help you build confidence and feel more like yourself. If you missed any part of the series, check out my TikTok at @nicolenorthh and follow along.

Let me know which tip resonated with you the most!

The Final 10 Days of My TikTok Series: 30 Days of Building a Stronger Sense of Self